| Location | Huddersfield |
| Age | 5 days |
| Date of Birth | 16/11/2004 |
| Date of Death | 21/11/2004 |
| Visitors | 4,366 since 15/03/2007 |
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kayden jake gelder our beautiful little miracle baby boy
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For just under 2 years me and your daddy was trying for a baby. in february 2003 i started seeing a
specialist at the hospital to see if there was a reason i wasn't getting pregnant, i had some tests
and then i was due to go back at the end of june to start some tablets to see if they would improve
my chances of becoming pregnant. two weeks before the appointment one of the happiest days of my
life arrived yes darling i found out i was pregnant with you, mummy was just getting use to thinking
she may never have children (but i didn't tell anyone else that) i couldn't believe it i even did 2
pregnancy test because i thought the first one might of been wrong. It ment the world to me and your
daddy knowing we were going to have a baby.
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Throughout the pregnancy i tried to do everything right i stopped smoking(i only smoked when i went
out anyway but i even stopped that), didn't have a drop of alcohol and i even tried to eat as
healthy as possible (eating more fruit and veg than i've ever eaten in my life). i wanted to do
everthing i could to give you the best start in live.
more happiest days came really quickly, the first and many times we heard your heart beat and that
all important scan. When it got close to having the scan me and daddy debated wether we should of
found out the sex but because we had no boys names chosen we thought we would then we would know if
we had to find one for when you were to be born and sure enough we had to get all the name books out
because we found we were having a beautiful boy. to begin with we were going to call you kade but
daddy wasn't so sure so we thought of hayden because i wanted something with den in because your
grandad was call dennis but we then saw jayden but daddy thought it was too popular so we decided to
replace the first letter with a k and thats how you became kayden which none of us had heard
before.
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As the pregnancy went on you continued to play football, give me all day sickness feeling and keep
me awake at night but i didn't mind at the slightest you could of done anything nothing could of
taken away the happy feeling of been pregnant with my first child and nothing every will.
just like nothing will ever take away the love we have for you.
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It was sat 13th november i was 25 weeks pregnant and still very excited i had just arrived home from
babysitting for a good friend of mine i went to the toilet just before going to bed when i notice a
little bit of blood. my heart sunk i tried so hard not to think anything bad but i phoned the
hospital and they said to go up just to get checked out but not to worry it could be something and
nothing. they were so wrong my heart sunk even further they told me and your daddy i had gone into
premature labour. they tried stopping it, i was put on bed rest i couldn't get out of bed and i was
tilted to try and prevent you from been born but you were just too eager and wanted to see the
world. on monday 15th november i want into full on labour you came into the world at 20 mins past
midnight it was the happiest and hardest day for me and your daddy we had this beautiful baby boy
but you were taken straight away to scbu, i didn't get to hold you that broke my heart but i just
kept thinking at least he is alive. those next minutes and hours were so long waiting to hear how
you were and that we could see you. you were such a little fighter you weren't ready to give in and
you must of known just how much we wanted to see you. we were warned before we saw you that you were
stable but the next 48 hours were crucial. you were so tiny but yet so gorgeous our very own baby
boy. i was so proud of you, you fought with everything you had and there were times when you made
improvement but because you were fighting so hard darling your lungs just couldn't take it and we
had to let you go at just 5 days old
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Our hearts broke in two and one part you still have and will have forever and ever. why do angels
have to be so perfect and beautiful if they weren't we might still have you here with us. theres not
a day goes by that we don't think about you. it hurts so much not having you here sweetie and all
the rest of the family miss you too.
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ANGELS.....
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A special smile a special face
A special person we cant replace
No longer here in our lives to share
But in our hearts your always there.
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Your name is so precious
It will never grow old
It's engraved in our hearts
In letters of gold
( and thats where it will stay forever)
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE OUR SPECIAL BABY BOY LOVE AND MISS YOU WITH ALL OUR HEARTS. SENDING YOU ALL OUR
LOVE HUGS AND KISSES FOREVER
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my baby boy forever
heaven may have you as an angel but you will always be my babyboy.
5 years ago baby where as the time gone, it still feels like yesterday to me i still feel the pain like it was yesterday. i still don't know why it had to be you people say its cos god only takes the best well he certainly got that when he took you darling. we miss you all the time sweetheart its so unfair just want to have you back and give you a cuddle. well didn't think one person could cry so many tears but believe me i think i have cried many rivers just want you back. love and miss you darling
MY CHILD
On the day God took you
I thought that I would die
I wondered where the time went
I asked a lot of whys
With people all around me
I felt alone inside
From all their words of comfort
I couldn't seem to hide
I thought I might be dreaming
That I'd wake and find you here
I thought "This can't be happening."
As I wiped another tear
On the day that you were laid to rest
My heart broke yet again
I wondered if the pain would end
But mostly, I wondered when
It's hard to be without you
At times the days seem long
Sometimes I just sit crying
When there's really nothing wrong
I wish we'd had more time
Before your life was done
I hope your resting peacefully
My precious one
sending you all our love a trillion times over big hugs and kisses too love mummy, daddy, blake and kara
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I would like to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes & pictures that are left on Christopher's website they are all very much appreciated.
Tributes For Week Starting 23rd November
FOR MONDAY
The best and most beautiful
Things in the world cannot
Be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.
FOR TUESDAY
Gone yet not forgotten,
Although we are apart,
Your spirit lives within me,
Forever in my heart.
FOR WEDNESDAY
A gift for such a little while,
Your loss just seems so wrong,
You should not have left before us,
It’s with loved ones you belong.
FOR THURSDAY
Perhaps they are not
Stars in the sky,
But rather openings
Where our loved ones shine down
To let us know they are happy.
FOR FRIDAY
The Watcher
They always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.
And though we mocked them tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because they waited there.
Their thoughts were all so full of us,
They never could forget,
And so I think that where they are
They must be watching yet.
Waiting ‘til we come home to them
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.
FOR SATURDAY
As We Look Back
As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough
For all you have done for us?
For all the times you were by our sides
To help and support us .....
To celebrate our successes
To understand our problems
And accept our defeats?
Or for teaching us by your example,
The value of hard work, good judgement,
Courage and integrity?
We wonder if we ever thanked you
For the sacrifices you made.
To let us have the very best?
And for the simple things
Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our
Gratitude enough for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.
FOR SUNDAY
To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I traveled on alone
So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memoriss in your heart
I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear
Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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TODAY AND ALWAYS XXXXXXXXX
Angelversary Day~
This day is Angelversary
A gathering of love
To celebrate your precious one
Now safe in heaven above
May whispers from the heaven's
On this your angel's day
Touch your soul with all you need
So you're loved in every way
An angelversary so special
Of memory, delight
Thinking of your sweetheart
The beauty of their life
God bless you every moment
And hold you very near
In remembrance of your dearest
Nevermore to fear
There's angels singing for you
The light of heaven glows
'Tis only just a little while
With them you will be home
May heaven's window open
(Where your beloved waits)
With all God's peace to comfort
Your angelversary day
I spent a day of total peace
with the shore, the sky, and sea.
And I've felt down deep inside my heart,
how much my Lord loves me!
~Maryann Lipari
TODAY AND ALWAYS XXXXXXXXX
Angelversary Day~ SENT WITH LOVE FROM HALINA XXX
This day is Angelversary
A gathering of love
To celebrate your precious one
Now safe in heaven above
May whispers from the heaven's
On this your angel's day
Touch your soul with all you need
So you're loved in every way
An angelversary so special
Of memory, delight
Thinking of your sweetheart
The beauty of their life
God bless you every moment
And hold you very near
In remembrance of your dearest
Nevermore to fear
There's angels singing for you
The light of heaven glows
'Tis only just a little while
With them you will be home
May heaven's window open
(Where your beloved waits)
With all God's peace to comfort
Your angelversary day
I spent a day of total peace
with the shore, the sky, and sea.
And I've felt down deep inside my heart,
how much my Lord loves me!
~Maryann Lipari
SENT WITH SO MUCH LOVE FOR YOU PRECIOUS ANGEL,AND YOUR FAMILY.SENDING SO MUCH LOVE AND PRAYERS.LOVE ALWAYS HALINA XXXXXXXXXXX21.NOV 09
Waiting at the Door
I can’t explain so deep inside
The very fabric of my soul
Only a heart that grieves such loss
Can ever truly understand
It’s like you’re waiting at the door
Until a loved one comes back home
You feel a longing in your heart
When they appear the longing stops
But in a loss that never ends
You’re always standing at that door
You feel the longing in the breeze
So incomplete and never filled
I cannot find the words to say
Just what it’s like to want forever
Never seeing them again
Just always waiting at the door
Alison Mary Dunn
Happy 5th Birthday Kayden hope you had a fun filled day with all your angel friends at your party xxxxxxxxx
HAPPY 5th BIRTHDAY KAYDEN
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we look up every night and see you our special shining star happy birthday little man hope you liked you presents and balloons on your garden today xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
birthday boy
a birthday message for our special angel hope you have a fantastic 5th birthday darling xxxxxxx
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a butterfly flying your way with a birthday message from all of us. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
for an angel
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If we could only speak to you,
And hold your loving hand,
No matter what we said or did,
We know you'd understand.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
Memory is a lovely lane,
Where hearts are ever true,
A lane we so often travel down,
Because it leads to you.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our lives to share,
But in our hearts you're always there.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
Your presence we miss,
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
forever in our hearts xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
my angel on your birthday
My Angel
My Angel alone is all I need,
He will help me through,
Lifting me up when I am down,
He knows just what to do.
My Angel alone is all I need,
Courage and strength he brings,
He is responsible,
For all these splendid things.
My Angel alone is all I need,
I long for him deep into the night,
I wait patiently to meet him,
And get him in my sight.
My Angel alone is all I need,
I know that he is mine,
Loving him is what I will do,
Till the end of time.
we love and miss you not just on this special day your birthday but on everyday.
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A Birthday In Heaven - by Kris Smith
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My Birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a Birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
I've put this poem on because i hope so much that it is true i hope you are having a fabarooney birthday baby boy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Birthdays are a time for celebration
Not a time for tears
But what happens when the birthdays
No longer mark the years?
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A birthday marks the moment
A spirit enters earthly life
To share it's special love and joy
And learn from earthly strife.
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Before a spirit comes to us
It knows when and how it must depart
It chose it's path carefully
We are honoured from the start.
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The sadness we now feel
On such a joyous day
Is longing for our loved one's touch
It's natural to feel this way.
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For even though the birthdays
No longer mark a loved ones stay
Love continues on forever
To touch us every day.
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So hug your precious memories
Closer to your heart
And honour your beloved spirit child
Who chose you from the start.
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Heaven
From morning’s first light to evenings last star
Never forget how special you are
Now you’re an Angel in a heavenly realm
Where there is joy and there is laughter
You will never find pain.
Have fun up in heaven for all of you days
Climbing up rainbows and sliding back down
Jumping around the fluffy white clouds
Chasing flutterbyes and baby spring lambs
Smelling the flowers and dancing around.
Your earthly loss is a heavenly gain
Your feathers so white and very pristine
Your shiny new halo upon your brown hair
Wear them with pride with your beautiful smile
As I look up to the heavens above
I will blow you a kiss all wrapped in my love
Catch and keep it as close as you can
You do the same from heaven to me
And this will be the tie till we meet again.
love and miss you always and forever xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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